Gay power bottom

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We can facilitate you become a better bottom! Here are some rapid bottoming tips and tricks from ACON’s peer-workshop Booty Basics.

1. Lube

The arse does not produce its own lubrication.

This means that lube is really, really crucial for any anal play. First, to stop damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to build bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to support protect it from infections.

Remember to utilize water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can break condoms.

2. You

The second principle is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and passionate aspects such as making sure you feel safe, making sure there is consent, that you feel comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.

Remember, sex is best for everyone if all the people emotionally attached are motivated by trying to maximise everyone’s pleasure safely. You can’t be a good companion and you can’t experience pleasure for yourself if you’re stressed or uncomfortable (bottom or not!).

3. R

Power Bottom

Meme
Status
Confirmed
Type:
Slang
Badges:
Sensitive
Year
2005
Origin
Urban Dictionary
Region
United States
Tags
gay, bottom, culture, lgbtq, authority bottom meaning, definition, memes, what does power bottom signify, internet slang, influence bottom slang

About

Power Bottom is an LGBTQslang term for a man who prefers to be on the receiving conclude of anal sex but, rather than be submissive, controls the encounter and acts dominant in the relationship. It can also be used to narrate men who accept pride in their ability to operate well-endowed partners and the frequency with which they can engage in anal sex. Originating online as early as the mid-2000s, the term spread on social media and other sites into the 2020s as it became more widely known.

Origin

Though it's unclear where exactly the term "Power Bottom" originated, a definition for the term was added to Urban Dictionary on August 19th, 2005, by the user Tucker, who defined it as the "dominant male in a queer relationship who prefers being on the receiving end" (shown below).



Spread

The term saw increased use in pop culture over the following years, helping it spread. On

Is there a difference between a bossy bottom and a force bottom?

Bossy bottoms are the types who claim they're the best bottom ever while bitching about their competition. They also tend to reveal their insecurities about being a bottom. When it comes to the moment to act, they're the ones make you chase them around the bed for the identical position, have no rhythm whatsoever and will complain to anyone within earshot that there are no good tops.

Power bottoms contain no insecurities about being a bottom, and their actions demonstrate that receiving penetration and existence aggressive are not mutually inclusive or exclusive. A power bottom can give commands without existence bitchy. There's always a grey area, and they enjoy exploring all options. And if you're participating in group sex, they're the ones who aren't trying to hold court but you exchange numbers with them because they were great sex with no silly hangups.

Oh, and because of bossy bottom's big mouth, he unintentionally helps power pottoms find and keep the prize tops. So if you're a top looking for a superb power bottom, pick a guy who comes across as a bossy bottom. They're viral campaigners on dating apps. Idiots.

Gay terminology. Similar to a bottom, but a specific variety. A power bottom tends to be in charge, and feels most powerful when bottoming; the one who bottoms is the one on the "throne" so to talk, "taking" the Top.

Contrary to some definitions, top/bottom terms apply to all same-gender partners, and is frequently used by not only gay men but also e.g. lesbian couples.

Person A: I think I might be a verse and not a bottom.
Person B: You sure you're not a power bottom?
Person A: A what?
Person B: (explains definition)
Person A: Oml, I think you might be right.

Person C: I-I'm benign of shy, and... I'm not sure what I'm doing... But I would love it if you came over tonight and rode me uguu uwu
Person D: (power bottom voice) U wanna see thru time binch? Turn ur location on sis I ain't fucking around this ass HUNGRY

by languageiscool Parade 26, 2019

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